Feeling like you don't belong anywhere is a common thought process for many people, especially young people. The "outlier" becomes who we are. This was an obsession of mine in my youth. I've come to see it as complete BS.
I think it was one of the big reasons I made the mistake of joining the military (and re-enlisting for fuck's sake!)
Everyone might seem to belong to this or that group, but most people feel they don't fit in there, either. Why?
It's because wherever and whenever you are in life is exactly where you belong. I've taken to calling it "herenow" since time and space are one.
So, next time you are feeling isolated, realize that you are herenow, always have been, and always will be.
This constant re-focus has been a big part of my "spiritual practice". It is a practice because you must catch yourself when you are desperately trying to fit in somewhere and are still suffering.
Focus back on herenow.
I think it was one of the big reasons I made the mistake of joining the military (and re-enlisting for fuck's sake!)
Everyone might seem to belong to this or that group, but most people feel they don't fit in there, either. Why?
It's because wherever and whenever you are in life is exactly where you belong. I've taken to calling it "herenow" since time and space are one.
So, next time you are feeling isolated, realize that you are herenow, always have been, and always will be.
This constant re-focus has been a big part of my "spiritual practice". It is a practice because you must catch yourself when you are desperately trying to fit in somewhere and are still suffering.
Focus back on herenow.
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